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by Ellen Thomas (2019-03-29)

And so it is with Hypnosis Live your personal identity; that individual in each of us that was stolen before we knew what the hell we were doing on the planet, while we were still squirming from the reality of fresh air and breast milk immediately after the perfect bliss of placenta and an umbilical cord. In reality we really have no hope of developing a true identity when we are so reliant upon those that surround us, so dependent upon their good will in order that we might survive, so completely under the spell of our parents; it is only when our character has been hammered into place that we actually get a chance to step back and realize that what we have been moulded into is just another version of the same thing - unoriginal and paradoxical - a sheep that is indistinguishable from all the other sheep, and so we decide that it is too late by then to do anything about it. It doesn't matter if you're trying to lose weight, start a business, or stop drinking, the vast majority fail, try again, and eventually quit. You may think your situations are unique to you, but the reality is everyone fails and quits many times in their lives.Failure can be a devastating blow to our self esteem and most often we rationalize our cause of failure to be something external other than ourselves. No one wants to admit failing so it's easier to blame extenuating circumstances. It's the government, my boss, or the economy that caused me to fail. But if we dig deeper I think we'll find that we don't like others to see us as a failure. How many times have you heard someone or yourself say they couldn't care what others think? In most situations, people do care what others think. Most people never venture out of their comfort zone and try something new because they are afraid of what people may think. Because our self worth is tied to what others think of us, we avoid the experiences that could make our live more fulfilling.As much as we think about what others are thinking of us, the reality is they are thinking about themselves, just as you do when others are wondering what you think of them. People with self confidence are able to break from this vicious cycle and achieve their life's desires.